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  Retirement Lifestyle       Planning For Happiness

 retirement planning


During our working years, time is our scarcest resource. Retirement lifestyle planning will enable you to finally create the work-life balance you want to have. 
 

Work-Life Balance?

You may wonder why I used the term work-life. Well, in doing your retirement lifestyle planning, you may decide to include some time for work you enjoy doing while still giving you time for the more important things in your life - family, friends, relaxation, etc. You will be free to be yourself and do what you want to do.

You probably will not want to work all the time. Perhaps a few months on and then a few months off would fit well with the plan for travel and adventure - mixing work and leisure.

Life Expectancy Is Increasing

For baby boomers especially, the life expectancy in retirement will be the longest it has ever been. The average is projected to be in the mid 80's.

I just saw a news clip about a 101 year old man training to run a marathon. People beginning to retire now can look forward to possibly another 30 to 40 years. That gives us about the same amount of time we had to work in our careers. This means retirement lifestyle planning is essential to make that time the most enjoyable.

People starting to retire now find themselves in what is called the 'sandwich' generation. The previous generation is living longer also. We are in between responsibilities for children and responsibilities for caring for our parents.

 

How Do You Want To Spend Your Time?

Retirement lifestyle planning is critical because today we prefer an active lifestyle over the passive lifestyle of previous generations. Here are a few questions to get you thinking about the lifestyle you want in retirement ...

·        
What did you always want to do with your
      life?

·        
What do you want to accomplish in your life?·         How do you want to be remembered?
·        
What motivates you?
·        
How would you spend your time if money was
      not an issue?

·        
Do you want to learn new skills?
·        
How about learning new skills?
·        
Would you like to obtain a degree?
·        
Do you want to travel to new countries that
      you have not seen?

·        
Would you like to learn to play a musical
      instrument?

·        
How about turning your hobby into a new
      business?

There are no right answers. It is totally up to you. You are in control. Your creativity, developed by your unique life's experiences, is a key ingredient to help you do you retirement lifestyle planning. 

In What Type Of Home Do You Want To Live?

Life after work for most people, will generally be maintaining their independence. You can buy (or build) a home with a universal home design. A universal home design is appealing to the younger generation as well as convenient for the older generations. Or, you can do things to your existing home to make your home more liveable as you become older.

One easy and inexpensive thing you can do is to change the door knobs to easier-to-use levers. We have already done this on some our doors and it really makes it easier. The same idea is good for bathtub and sink faucets.

When planning for retirement, you should remember simple things, such as, entering and exiting a bathtub, which can become unsafe. Consider a walk in bathtub to bathe safely, comfortably, and most importantly, at home.

You may arrange to have a home office and an exercise room all on the main level. You will want easy accessibility should you need to be in a wheelchair later down the road - ramps, wider doorways, etc. 

Do You Want To Travel and Expand Your Knowledge?

You may need to travel to determine where you want to settle and live through your retirement years. It's best to try several areas before making a decision. You may decide that your best option is to stay right where you are. Evaluating other potential places helps you make an informed decision.

      Who’s Feeding
        Our Toddlers?
   toddler eating

New data shows that 30% of toddler meals provided by carers other than parents

‘Ten Steps for Healthy Toddlers’ launched to help parents, carers and healthcare professionals share the task of feeding toddlers. 

A new survey from the Infant & Toddler Forum shows that British parents rely on a complex support network – including nurseries, childminders, grandparents and extended family – all of whom play an important role in feeding their toddlers. In fact, the survey shows that the average toddler typically has almost 30% of their meals provided by people other than their parents.

This may not be a big surprise given the nature of our modern lifestyle, but it may affect the wellbeing of toddlers if the quality and quantity of meals provided are inconsistent and unbalanced and if positive attitudes to food and exercise are not systematically encouraged.

Most parents and carers are keen to do the best for toddlers and through education, it may possible to address the cycle of poor nutrition by empowering parents and carers to make informed choices. The Infant & Toddler Forum believes that the ‘Ten Steps’ will go some way to achieving this.

The survey shows that parents are often anxious that those who look after their toddlers are not providing healthy food choices with over one third of parents concerned that their toddlers may not be getting healthy, balanced meals. Of these, 50% say that their toddlers are given too many treats.

Providing toddlers with a healthy start has become a public health priority because not only do toddlers need a healthy balanced diet to thrive, but the foods they learn to like in their early years can help shape eating habits that influence their health in later life. Good eating habits can help prevent serious health problems, including obesity, heart disease, diabetes and cancer.

 

Ten Steps for Healthy Toddlers is available for download from www.littlepeoplesplates.co.uk

 
 

 

               Retirement Page

     Ruby Saddles Up For the
   Charity Trek Of A Lifetime

  Ruby with horses in Iceland

    Ruby with her horse on the Iceland trek

Intrepid adventurer, Ruby Grimshaw, from Brighton, had the trip of a lifetime in Iceland last month in August on a six-day horse trek in aid of the Brooke - the UK’s leading charity for hardworking horses, donkeys and their owners overseas.

The trek saw 70 year-old Ruby and 15 other participants rode past 
steaming waterfalls, green valleys and the majestic Snæfellsjökull volcano as they travelled through Snæfellsnes peninsula National Park from August 14 – 21.

Ruby, who writes a column in Brighton’s weekly magazine ‘Latest 7’, has been a dedicated supporter of the Brooke for over 15 years and has previously taken part in four other expeditions to Egypt, India, Kenya and Jordan.

Ruby says, “
Iceland is a country I have never been to but I have heard a lot about - I cannot imagine 24 hours of daylight. I am particularly excited about herding the Icelandic horses which look so small and cuddly in comparison to their UK counterparts. I have long supported the Brooke which does a unique job in providing vital veterinary care for working horses and donkeys as well as education for their owners – I am proud to be a dedicated supporter of this wonderful charity”.

  Ruby with another participant


By taking part Ruby and the other participants will be helping to improve the lives of hard working horses, donkeys and mules in some of the world’s poorest communities. Many of these animals toil for up to 12 hours a day in unbearable conditions. Via mobile veterinary teams, the Brooke ensures animals are healthy, happy and fit for work, thus also maintaining the livelihoods of the millions of poor people who rely on them. And, by taking the time to educate and train owners on how to properly care for their animals – the Brooke continues to improve animal welfare throughout communities.   


Charlotte Simmonds, the Brooke’s Community Fundraising Manager says, ‘It’s great to see Ruby taking the reigns once again by participating in our Icelandic Horse Trek. It’s set to be a really exciting challenge, taking participants through some of the world’s most beautiful landscapes.
 All the money Ruby raises will go a long way towards helping hundreds of working horses and donkeys in some of the poorest parts of the world’.

The Brooke is the UK’s leading overseas charity dedicated to alleviating the suffering of horses, donkeys and mules working in the poorest parts of the world, and improving the lives of the people who depend on them.

Millions of animals toil in some of the world’s toughest environments, but much of their suffering is preventable. The Brooke works directly via a network of mobile vet teams, field clinics and community animal health workers, and through partners, to provide care and treatment in conjunction with training to promote good animal welfare practices.

From humble beginnings in Cairo, the Brooke has grown into an international life saver, reaching 800,000 animals every year, across 11 countries. The Brooke aims to improve the welfare of at least two million working horses, donkeys and mules in the most need by 2016.

For more information about the Brooke and how to get involved visit www.thebrooke.org
 

Tough Psychological Problems for New Retirees

  retired couple

  • Funding retirement is only one of future retirees’ worries, reveals Scottish Widows

 

  • Over a quarter (27%) of retirees found the transition from working life to retirement difficult

 

  • Over one in five (23%) of those in retirement miss the sense of structure which comes from working life

 

  • One in seven (15%) retirees found having less of a social life their greatest challenge

With retirement on the horizon, many people approaching retirement will be thinking about how they will fund their golden years, but many don’t consider the impact it will have on them emotionally. New research from Scottish Widows reveals that it is just as important to consider the emotional and practical implications of these lifestyle changes as many will be in for a shock when they reach retirement, according to the inaugural Retire-Easy report just launched.  

Whilst money worries were the biggest challenge that retirees faced after they finished working (with 30% of people stating that they did not have enough money to enjoy their new free time to the full) many people also highlighted the lifestyle challenges that came with the transition. Faced with a sudden lifestyle change, one in seven (15%) retirees said that one of the biggest challenges they faced was coping with their reduced social life after leaving work. 

Further to this, nearly a quarter (23%) of retirees missed the sense of structure in their life that came with working, leaving them at a loss of what to do with all their free time, and three in 10 (30%) found that they simply didn’t have enough money to fully enjoy their new life. The research also showed that men (18%) found the change from working to retirement very sudden compared to women (12%) who seemed to be able to cope better. 

The psychological effects of retirement are also a major concern with 29% of retired men stating that the transition from working to retiring was hard to deal with compared to 24% of retired women who felt the same. However, the expectations prove to be worse than the reality with over two fifths (43%) of over 50’s expecting the transition into retirement to be harder than retirees actually find it to be. 

This added anxiety can be seen in the increased concerns future retirees have about the challenges they will face when they stop working including over one in eight (13%) who won’t be in good enough health to enjoy their retirement, around one in five (22%) who don’t want to leave a job that they enjoy, and a further one in eight (13%) won’t know what to do with the extra time on their hands. 

Biggest challenges that are/will be faced when you retire

Retirees

Over 50s    yet to      retire

Not having enough money to enjoy retirement to the full

30%

56%

Missing the sense of structure in life that comes with working

23%

30%

Not being in good enough health to enjoy retirement

17%

13%

Enjoying their job and not wanting to stop working

16%

22%

Having less of a social life

15%

8%

Finding the change from working to retirement very sudden

15%

15%

 Alison Morris, savings expert at Scottish Widows said: “It is not just the financial shift that people have to prepare for when they retire, but the lifestyle change that comes with it. Many people want to take it easy and enjoy the free time they have when they retire, but it is important to understand that retirement can be one of life’s most significant transitions so careful planning is crucial for your well-being. A way to help alleviate the financial stresses that over half (56%) of over 50’s expect to face when they retire is to make sure they have adequate savings to enjoy retirement to the full. 

Scottish Widows recommends that you save at least 12% of your salary from age 30 to retirement age to ensure you have an adequate income in retirement.” 

You can find out more about retirement planning at ‘Your little book of money 2010’ – an independent guide to finance. Available as a downloadable PDF and via a new website at www.scottishwidows.co.uk/littlebook
 

 

OAPs Ivy & Lil Refuse To Retire, And Raise £25,000
    For Charity Instead!

 Ivy and Lil become Superstar DJs
It’s not every day that a couple of ladies in their 80’s Become Superstar DJs with Groove Armada, Captain a Ship or Run off and Join the Circus. But that’s exactly what these OAPs from south London are doing this summer, to raise £25,000 for charity!

Ivy & Lil, 81 and 86 respectively, have worked together as sewing machinists since they left school at 15, and have stitched and seamed at clothing company White Stuff for 25 years. The girls have no intention of retiring any time soon, and are instead completing their lifelong dreams before they reach their 100th birthday.

Ivy and Lil join the circus

Each of their 25 Things will raise £1,000 for the White Stuff Foundation, for children’s charities across the UK. 

They’ll be working their way through their list of 25 Things, including:

>  Demolishing a Building

>  Meeting their Heroes 

>
 Being a Rock Star for a Day
 

      The New Age of
     the Grandparent


Grandparents with their grandchildren

Under 25s most likely to be named after grandparents
 

Under 35s closest to grandparents

Sixty per cent of over 65s never knew grandparents

 Thirty per cent want to find a naval war hero in their family 

Grandparents have never been so important for the younger generation according to independent research by Wood’s 100 Old Navy Rum.

The results reveal that people in their twenties and thirties revere and respect grandparents with around three quarters of respondents saying their grandfather was a hero.  This compares to just over a half of those aged over 65. Equally, more than half of those under 25 are proud of their grandfathers whereas less than a quarter of people aged over 65 feel the same.

Nowadays it seems that a quarter of under 25s feel they don’t know their grandfather compared with 60 per cent of pensioners who admit they didn’t know theirs at all.

The pride the younger generation have for their elders is shown in their commitment to name their own offspring after their grandparents.  More than two-thirds of people aged under 35 are keen to name their children after one or more of their own parents – compared to just over two-fifths of people over 65 that had considered or done it. 

Indeed 16 per cent of men in the survey by Wood’s 100, a drink consumed most frequently by an older generation, said that they felt it was an important way to keep family history alive.   Women are particularly keen on the concept, only 12 per cent said they thought this custom was irrelevant or outdated.

And it seems many of us have a yearning for unearthing heroic family secrets. When asked what they’d like to dig up in their family tree, 30 per cent of respondents opted for a naval war hero – the most popular – followed by 20 per cent who said they’d be keen to discover an inventor.

Alex Bilmes, features editor of GQ and proud father of one commented that the results are borne out in the trend for more ‘old-fashioned’ names: “In an age where we are leading lives increasingly apart from our closest relatives it seems we hanker more and more for family ties. There has been a surge in interest in genealogy and people are clearly keen to restore and retain links with their family – however disparate they may be.”

Sarah Pace, assistant brand manager at Wood’s 100 added: “Our consumers are generally former sailors who are now spending much of their free time looking after their grandchildren and it’s heartening to see the reverence with which they are held.”

Most Popular Boys’ Names in 2008 

1              Jack

2              Oliver

3              Thomas

4              Harry

5              Joshua

6              Alfie

7              Charlie

8              Daniel

9              James

10           William

  Default Retirement Age
  'Phase Out' Is A Wake Up
        Call To Savers


With the new coalition Government's plans to phase out the Default Retirement Age (DRA) Friends Provident is stressing the need for savers in the UK to start planning ahead or face working into their seventies.

Friends Provident argues the change to the default retirement age may very well make it easier for people in the UK to work longer but questions whether that is really the best outcome people can hope for. The provider also cautions that a proportion of the 'greying' population may not in fact be fit enough to work.

With the number of workers aged 55 plus expected to grow significantly in the next 10 years (from 5.14 million to 7.16million according to the Visions of Britain 2020 report) Friends Provident is warning that, although it is good news for those who wish to work longer, people should not use this demographic trend as an excuse to put off saving for retirement. 

Friends Provident's research – Visions of Britain 2020, The Workforce- showed 48% of workers would like to work either full or part-time beyond the statutory retirement age but warns workers should think twice before relying on a longer working career to fund their retirement.

Martin Palmer, head of pensions marketing at Friends Provident, said:

"The concern is that by abolishing the default retirement age, we could be opening up a whole new can of worms. People need to be aware of the reality of working longer. As a nation we should start seeing retirement as a process in our lives and not a one-off event.

"We need to provide the right savings options to help enable this and help employers foster a suitable savings culture to encourage people to start investing in their future. More flexible employee benefit platforms can empower employees to choose the savings products right for their life goals and by increasing engagement encourage a bigger percentage of the working population to start making provision for later on in life."

     

 

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